When in Doubt, Bet for your Child
If you always bet for your child, you will always come out winning and what is even more important yet, he will also come out winning. The whole world bets against a little child, they all bet that he does not understand, they bet he does not remember anything, they bet that he just simply does not “get it”. You child does not care that there is another person betting against him though.
Always tell your child the truth Your child was born believing that everything you say is the truth. Do not ever give him any motive to change his opinions about this theme. Do not allow anybody to say anything that is not true to him. The motives for this are pretty obvious, we don’t have to explain. Given that you have an infinite respect for your child; it is only fair your child gives you back that respect. If you are faithful to your word in all the things you do and al
l the time, he will respect you. If you do not do this, he will love you but he will not respect you. It would be terrible to take that joy away from him.
If your child asks you a question, answer in an honest, concrete and enthusiastic way Your child will very rapidly come to the conclusion that you have and know all of the answers to everything. He will see in you a source of information and he will be absolutely right. You are after all, his source of information. Whenever he trusts you with one of his ingenious questions, and which are normally difficult to respond to, place yourself in the same place of the circumstances. Do not leave it for later if you can help it in some way. If you do not know the answer, tell him you do not know. Then, dedicate the necessary time to finding out the answer.
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